Now I understand why Jose got angry – Essien on life as a coach

Being a coach is not an easy job. It requires a lot of patience, dedication, and understanding. As a former player turned coach, I have gained a whole new perspective on the challenges that coaches face on a daily basis.

One particular incident that stands out in my mind is when Jose, one of my players, got angry during a practice session. At first, I didn’t understand his outburst and was taken aback by his behavior. However, after reflecting on the situation, I realized that there was more to it than meets the eye.

As a coach, I have come to realize that each player has their own unique set of challenges and struggles. What may seem like a simple mistake on the surface, could be the result of deeper issues that the player is facing. It is important for coaches to take the time to understand their players on a deeper level.

In Jose’s case, I later learned that he was dealing with personal issues outside of the field that were affecting his performance on the pitch. This realization helped me approach the situation with more empathy and compassion, rather than simply reacting out of frustration.

As a coach, it is crucial to create a supportive and understanding environment for your players. By fostering open communication and empathy, coaches can better support their players through difficult times and help them reach their full potential.

In conclusion, my experience as a coach has taught me the importance of patience, understanding, and empathy. It has helped me see things from a different perspective and approach coaching with a more holistic view. Now I understand why Jose got angry that day, and I am grateful for the lessons it has taught me.